![]() I see way too many people who are ignorant about anal play try to jump to anal sex without warming up and get hurt. Pain is a sign that you are injuring yourself and means you should stop. I can't enforce that enough ANAL PLAY IF DONE RIGHT DOES NOT HURT AT ALL. Whatever you do when it comes to anal play go slow and use a lot of lube and stop if anything hurts. In general that is the way to get started with anal play and you can work up to bigger sizes of plugs over time and eventually to anal sex if you desire (some people are happy with just plugs, its up to you). The orgasm tends to originate from the whole pelvis rather then just the clitoris and it is just generally more powerful. I find I cum WAY harder with a plug in my ass and the sensation is more of a full body type orgasm then with clitoral stimulation alone. In general you'll find that anal stimulation acts like a force multiplier for orgasms. You have to help form that neural pathway by incorporating an already hard wired pleasure response with the sensation of anal stimulation. The reason its odd at first is because the brain hasn't yet figured out that the anus can be an erogenous zone. I can almost guarantee if you have an orgasm with a plug in your ass you are going to find that anal stimulation starts to feel quite amazing. In general if you are new to anal play and its still a bit weird for you the BEST thing to do is to try masturbating while wearing your plug. Get yourself a good thick lubricant if you haven't already Sliquid Organics Gel is a great one (good for vaginal sex and handjobs too) that will be compatible with most toys (silicone is the best material for butt plugs because its comfortable and fully sterilizable). It sounds like you are new to anal play in general. This (that link is a review I wrote on the toy) is the best plug I've ever used, both in general and for wearing out in public. My suggestion would be to work towards a slightly bigger plug then to buy something that has a curved shape and is a plug that has a large bulbous portion and a small neck. The straight tapered shaped ones are great for anal sex warm up or training yourself to relax when you are new to anal play but they tend to come out if you walk with them in or tend to contract pretty hard when you orgasm (I've ejected many a butt play during orgasm). ![]() As someone who loves wearing butt plugs in public its definitely something you have to have the right kind of plug to do. My worries is that it being so small it might not stay as well. ![]()
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